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RECIPES OF RUHAMAH
June 8, 2026
A dear friend sent me an article from the May 11th issue of THE SEATTLE TIMES: “More Than Mementos: Cherished recipes offer clues to the past” by Providence Cicero. As you can imagine, I was enthralled as I read:
“Cynthia Nims describes herself as ‘a keeper of things.’ Among them are her mother’s recipes, stored in a tattered accordion file held together by packing tape and a prayer . . . As a longtime food writer, magazine editor and the author or co-author of dozens of cookbooks, the lifelong Seattleite has compiled several recipe caches of her own, including her very first, which she also kept in an accordion file. But it’s her mother’s trove that has inspired Nims’ newest venture, Long Live the Recipe Box, an online effort to inspire others to mine cherished recipes for the connections and stories they tell about the past.
“Nearly 25 years after Marion Nims’ death, the contents of her recipe file still fascinate her daughter who can’t bring herself to toss a single recipe.
“‘I see the whole collection as a treasure,’ she says . . .
“Recipe files are like time capsules but also part of a continuum. Whether passed along by relatives, friends, neighbors, coaches or colleagues, recipes show us the way things were, and Nims is on a mission to make sure they are preserved . . .
“She senses a renewed interest in the tangible handwritten recipe and loves to hear that people are creating recipe collections to give as a shower or wedding gift.”
I’ve been continuing my project of going through acres of paperwork, etc., trying to organize what to keep. A definite keeper is a collection of my favorite recipes I typed up and Don transformed into a booklet with cardboard covers and a two-ring binding. It was a wedding present for Penny. I titled it “Recipes of Ruhamah.” As I’ve mentioned, there was a Ruhamah far back on my mother’s family tree; I was named instead for my Grandmother Ruth but “Ruhamah” became in a way my mother’s nickname for me especially when she needed more than two syllables—“Ruthie!”—to get my attention. Thus the title was a family in-joke, a family amusement.
Reading the little cookbook I’m back in Lisbon, New Hampshire, where Don and I lived from the summer of 1962 to the summer of 1964 in a rented weathered Cape; bliss, our first house after apartments. In the old kitchen with hardly any countertops I began my years of serious cooking, especially the baking of bread. So the cookbook’s first section is “Breads and Coffee Cakes,” and includes the fun name “Wry Braid” and the exotic thrill of French bread.
The second section is “Cakes, Cookies, and Desserts”; there are sections devoted to “Dips and Hors d’Oeuvres,” “Chowders,” “Egg and Cheese Dishes”; and eventually “Main Dishes” predominated by canned-soup concoctions. There are many mentions of frugality on a teacher’s salary: instead of Beef Stroganoff I have a recipe for a hot-dog stroganoff, “Frankfurters and Sour Cream,” which Penny and I always laughed about.
The recipe for “Pate de Foie Gras” is the one I most enjoyed reading, because of my notes to Penny at the end, especially my “P.S.” Heathcliff was our border collie.
PATE DE FOIE GRAS (WITH CHICKEN LIVERS)
1 lb. chicken livers
2 eggs
2 medium-sized onions
2 tablespoons butter
salt and pepper
Drop chicken livers into boiling water seasoned with salt and pepper; simmer until barely done; about ten minutes. Drain them.
Cook eggs until hard; shell them, chop them, and add to livers.
Chop onions coarsely and sauté them in butter.
Chop or blend all these ingredients until they are a fine paste. Season with salt and pepper, and, if you want, with herbs.
NOTES
• I used only ½ lb. livers and the regular amount of other ingredients; I saved money, and it tasted fine.
• Don likes a bit of Worcestershire sauce added.
• This is wonderful in sandwiches with mayonnaise. You can make very fancy crust-less sandwiches if you want to feel Elegant.
• P.S. Heathcliff loves this, too, and almost broke down the refrigerator door trying to get at it.
© 2025 by Ruth Doan MacDougall; all rights reserved
WASTE NOT, WANT NOT
June 1, 2026
The other day I started laughing after I realized what I’d jotted down on my grocery list: Swiffer Duster refills.
And I thought of how I had balked when Swiffer Dusters arrived at the supermarket. As I’ve mentioned here before, friends of my generation talk about the frugality instilled in us by our parents, so I call us “Children of the Great Depression.” I had always used rags for dusting and put them in laundry loads and used them again forever; I had a drawer full of rags that I thought of as sort of my version of quilt material, evoking memories, Don’s old T-shirts, my old favorite blue nightie with pink flowers, etc. Why would I use a duster that I couldn’t use forever? A duster that needed refills?
But eventually I got curious, bought a box—and I haven’t used the rags since. But of course I can’t throw them away, just in case I run out of refills. And I don’t always throw away a dusty, dirty Swiffer; I keep it to use in really dusty places.
Laughing, I also thought of the scene in OFF SHORE when Snowy discovered a “cute green double boiler” in Mildred’s Cotter Cottage attic. Snowy inspected it “and saw a scorched hole in the lower saucepan ..Being a frugal New Englander, Mildred hadn’t thrown [the double boiler] away; the upper saucepan was still okay and maybe the lower one could be mended. She could imagine Mildred reciting that old saying ‘Use it up, wear it out, make it do, or do without.’”
My mind next somehow leapt to zucchinis. Waste not, want not! We all know that even a careful, judicious planting will yield more than we can give away. There are those jokes about how you’d better lock your car or someone will leave zucchinis in it. I felt guilty just throwing surplus zucchinis onto the compose pile. Then I read zucchini advice in a gardening column; as the gardener pointed out, zucchini side dishes and bread and muffins hardly made a dent in the zucchini abundance. She advised chopping up lots of zucchinis for the main course, sautéing them with onions and garlic and herbs and whatever else struck your fancy and topping it all with grated cheese. Don and I liked the result. I was canning or freezing everything else in the garden—so because of this zucchini recipe I chopped and froze the extras for winter meals. Frozen and thawed zucchinis are not appetizing. Now, looking back, this seemed, ahem, extreme frugality.
However, I next thought about Meal-on-Wheels boxes and I felt proud. A couple of friends had mentioned finding that their mothers had saved all the aluminum trays for years. Stacks of them! When I began receiving Meals-on-Wheels deliveries I made myself put the trays in my recycling wastebasket. When the deliveries switched to Styrofoam boxes I consulted our dump manager and he said yes, recycle. Recycling meant I was doing a good deed. Thus I conquered the urge to save them in a cupboard, just in case. A triumph for a Child of the Great Depression!
© 2025 by Ruth Doan MacDougall; all rights reserved
DANDELION FESTIVAL
May 25, 2025
A year ago in April I wrote here:
“Recently when my dear friend Winifred and I were discussing dandelion greens I explained that I’ve never picked or cooked them because Don had dandelion-greens PTSD. In his childhood, he would relate, he had to traipse around lawns after his grandmother, carrying a bag for the millions of dandelion leaves she would harvest. Then came washing them, which took FOREVER. His grandparents and parents lived in the Weirs, the lake-resort section of Laconia, and he could have been SWIMMING.
“Still, he did join me rejoicing at the springtime sight of dandelions and we never tried to rid our lawn of them.”
I thought of this when I saw a Sandwich Board post, May 10, 2025: “Dandelion Festival, May 17. Saturday afternoon, 2–4 p.m., the Carroll County Beekeepers are hosting a Dandelion Festival in the Grove next to the Wonalancet Chapel. Tasty dandelion snacks! Amy and Ethan Sager will give a brief presentation on soil health, Kathy Goodson will speak on medicinal uses for dandelions and sponsor a plant walk, Bruce Bennett will present on Bee-Hunting using a bee-lining box [I Googled], Gunnar Berg will talk on Dandelion Wine with samples—and lots more! This is a free event open to all.”
I bet that despite the PTSD Don and I would’ve gone to this festival. Wonalancet is a lovely nearby village.
Speaking of dandelion wine, I mentioned in my post last year that “One spring I collected (on my own, sparing Don) millions of dandelion blossoms from our lawn and neighbors’ lawns and made dandelion wine.” I used the recipe I’d often seen and wondered about in the little Lend-a-Hand Club cookbook to which my Grandmother Ruth and Lexington friends had contributed, their names beside most recipes. The last two pages have “Old Time Recipes for Home-Made Wines.” No names given. I don’t remember that Grandmother Ruth ever made dandelion wine. But during Prohibition?
Dandelion Wine
2 quarts dandelion blossoms picked when the sun is on them. Pull off the blossoms but do not use any stems. Plunge into boiling water before they are wilted and let them stand 7 hours. Strain, add 2 lemons sliced, 2 oranges sliced, 1 pound raisins chopped, 3 pounds sugar, ½ yeast cake dissolved in warm water. Let this stand 2 weeks in a stone jar, then strain through a fine sieve and then through several thicknesses of cheese cloth. Makes 1 gallon. Bottles do not have to be sealed.
We’re nearing the end of the dandelion season so I should be bidding farewell now. Instead, I’ve been remembering Walt Whitman’s poem of welcome in the little POEMS FOR GARDENERS anthology Penny gave me:
The First Dandelion
Simple and fresh and fair from winter’s close emerging,
As if no artifice of fashion, business, politics,
has ever been,
Forth from its sunny nook of shelter’d grass—
Innocent, golden, calm as the dawn,
© 2025 by Ruth Doan MacDougall; all rights reserved
GRANITE STATE'S BEST PLACES
May 18, 2025
In the May issue of NEW HAMPSHIRE MAGAZINE the cover story is “Best Places in the Granite State” and the table of contents says, “Looking for an opportunity to get out and explore the Granite State but don’t know where to start? Check out our list of 124 eclectic stops, local treasures, and hidden gems by region.”
I turned immediately to the article. It starts at the Seacoast region: “With about 18 miles of coastline, New Hampshire has the shortest coastline in the United States. But don’t let that fool you—those 18 miles are saturated with history and surrounded by picturesque towns . . . The Seacoast is packed with things to do, no matter the season.” The places described go from the Hong Asian Noodle Bar in Dover to the glorious Wentworth by the Sea, a huge 150-year-old hotel in New Castle that Penny and I used to gape at during our visits to Rye Harbor.
And of course this harbor is the highlight of the seacoast to me, Rye Harbor where our grandparents rented a cottage every summer. In SNOWY it became fictional Pevensay, where Snowy and Alan had their first home. The home is fictional but not the nearby jetty of slick black rocks, which Penny and I clambered over and explored.
Next, the Dartmouth/Lake Sunapee region. I remember places not on the article’s list: visiting the Hood Museum to see one of my father’s manuscripts on display; doing a book signing at the Dartmouth Bookstore. On the article’s list there is Lou’s Restaurant and Bakery. Yes! Don and I had lunch there whenever our timing in Hanover was right.
Monadnock Region. Keene’s Main Street is on this list, the “famous wide Main Street.” And on that street was Armstrong’s newspaper-store-and-lunch-counter where Don worked part time, bringing home to our married students’ barracks apartment frappes and chopped-ham sandwiches!
Merrimack Valley. On this list is the Ash Street Inn Bed and Breakfast in Manchester. “Originally built in 1885, the inn is a converted Queen Anne Victorian home, perfect for travelers seeking quiet and comfort.” The wonderful New Hampshire Writers’ Project person who phoned to tell me that I would be receiving their 2005 Lifetime Achievement Award recommended the Ash Street Inn. So Don and I stayed there after that ceremony and on another Writers’ Project occasion.
The White Mountains. “Take a waterfall tour ... One classic New Hampshire outdoor trip is to pack a picnic, take a leisurely hike on a family-friendly trail, and enjoy lunch at one of the state’s many spectacular waterfalls.” The easiest to get to is Sabbaday Falls. The highest, 200 feet, is Arethusa Falls, named for the water nymph in Percy Bysshe Shelley’s poem.
The Lakes Region. Ah, my home region. Where to begin? How about the Mt. Washington Scenic Cruise out of Weirs Beach, Laconia: “... take a relaxing scenic tour of Lake Winnipesaukee.” Where to end the day? “The Colonial Theater, Laconia. See concerts, touring performances, speakers and more at this lovingly restored historic theater.” The Colonial inspired the 1950s movie theater in THE CHEERLEADER about which I wrote, “The lobby was long and chilly, the gray floor sloping slowly upward, as if to paradise.”
And the last region: Great North Woods. For an adventure: “Moose Watching. Gorham Moose Tours operates bus tours from the end of May through mid-September; their wildlife guides will help you safely spot this majestic animal. Farther north, the stretch of Route 3 from Pittsburg north to the Canadian border, known locally as Moose Alley, is your best bet for spotting moose or deer that are crisscrossing the road in search of food and water.”
I would add that you could also climb a far-north mountain, as Don and I did when I put it in 50 MORE HIKES IN NEW HAMPSHIRE, Mount Magalloway. I wrote, “Growing up in Orford on the Connecticut River, Dan was fascinated by the river’s history. Later he spent much time exploring its headwaters in the Pittsburg area and eventually he wrote INDIAN STREAM REPUBLIC: SETTLING A NEW ENGLAND FRONTIER, 1785–1842 . . . Mount Magalloway, elevation 3,383 feet, named after the river beyond the mountain, gives you wilderness views into Canada, Vermont, and Maine, along with New Hampshire. The hike itself is short and easy, but the trip north can seem almost as much of an adventure as it was for the Indian Stream settlers.”
At Girls’ State in 1956 we learned the New Hampshire State Song and I find myself humming it now:
Old New Hampshire, old New Hampshire,
Old New Hampshire grand and great.
We will sing of Old New Hampshire,
Of the dear old Granite State.
© 2025 by Ruth Doan MacDougall; all rights reserved
MAY 2025 SANDWICH BOARD
May 11, 2025
In April there were Sandwich Board posts announcing the arrival of hummingbirds in Sandwich. Then came this one:
May 1: Day, May Day. The first hummingbird arrived today up here in the high altitude (1350) part of Sandwich. This is the earliest arrival date I have recorded in 45 years of keeping track—by about a week. Must mean something—hope it’s not dire. Happy to have them return.
Other posts I enjoyed:
May 3: Samuel Wentworth Library Bike Clinic, Saturday 10–noon at the library. The wonderful volunteers from Bearcamp Bikes will be on the site for spring tuneup, patches for flats &/or adjustments—all free. Bring a helmet to pedal in the parking lot if you want to test out your ride. If the black flies are ferocious, then the bike techs will be inside the Joseph Wentworth Community Room downstairs.
May 3: Family Community Dance, Saturday, Sandwich Town Hall, 6:30 p.m. Music by the Sandwich Jam Band. Multiple musicians on fiddles, guitars, mandolins, bass, piano, bodhran [I Googled: Irish drum]. All ages welcome. No dance experience needed. FREE. All dances taught: Virginia Reel, Circles, Longways, Squares, Polka, Waltz. [This brought back memories I’ve mentioned here: our sixth-grade teacher decided her pupils should learn to waltz—and we learned so thoroughly that when we moved from the elementary school into the junior high and were seen at dances we were nicknamed “the waltzing seventh grade.”]
May 4. Moose just now right outside my back door. Photo: expanse of lawn, the moose about to enter woods. [Memories of moose sightings in our backyard I’ve also mentioned here, especially the funny expression on the face of the moose who emerged from the woods on his usual route to the beaver pond and found a structure in his way, the tool shed that Don had begun building. The moose stopped and stared. Then walked around it, onward to slosh across the pond.]
May 7. Thoreau Comes to Sandwich. Allan DiBiase. May 7, 1854 in Thoreau’s JOURNAL:
“If man is thankful for the serene & warm day—much more are the flowers—”
Allan’s photo of trout lilies in the woods. [I was reminded of the scene in HENRIETTA SNOW when Snowy and Tom are celebrating Tom’s May 15th fiftieth birthday with a hike up fictional Swiftwater Mountain. At one of their stops along the trail Snowy “marveled at the biggest patch of trout lilies she’d ever seen, speckled and flickering in the sun through the new leaves.”]
May 7. Chocorua Mountain Club Trail Clearing Day this Saturday! If you feel like a hike, come help maintain mountain trails on Mount Chocorua. For a more low-key day, join a crew to work on trails on conservation land in the Chocorua Lake Basin. Either way, spend time outdoors with friends and neighbors and gather at the end of the day for a potluck to celebrate. This Saturday, May 10, meet in the Grove at Chocorua Lake at 9 a.m. [The view from the summit of Chocorua is grand but the view OF Chocorua is more famous. As my father wrote in the “Champney Falls/Mount Chocorua” hike in 50 MORE HIKES IN NEW HAMPSHIRE, “It is one of the most photographed mountains in the East because it combines a spectacular rock pinnacle with a foreground of blue lakes framed by white birches.”]
Happy Mother’s Day!
© 2025 by Ruth Doan MacDougall; all rights reserved
MAINE SEAWEED WEEK
May 4, 2025
In A BORN MANIAC, during their courtship Puddles says to Blivit, “Damnit, do you want to continue with—with us, whatever it is?” When he nods she says, “Then what we’ve got to do is get the hell away from here. Let’s go someplace that’ll be new to both of us.” He says, “Grand Manan. We’ll go there.” She asks, “What and where is Grand Manan?”
“It’s another island. But in Canada. Aunt Izzy’s been after me to check out dulse processing there, one of her ideas for the cannery building.”
“Dulse? Isn’t dulse the dried seaweed that people eat?”
“Apparently Grand Manan is the dulse capital of the world.”
Over the years before Don and I visited his Great-uncle Frank (whom Don had last met at age five) and Canadian wife Ethel (Frank was her second husband) on Grand Manan in 1987, I had read about dulse and seen it in whole foods stores but hadn’t bought it because of salt and Don’s heart problems. On Grand Manan we tasted dulse. According to my Grand Manan journal, “Ethel brought from the kitchen a tin for us to sample. Don didn’t like it but was of course polite; I of course liked it.”
After our visit with Frank and Ethel, before we returned to our motel we got to the Grand Harbour Museum just before it closed for the day. There we “saw a photograph of Willa Cather on a wall and a sign saying, ‘On this desk Willa Cather typed the manuscript for several of her famous novels at Whale Cove, Grand Manan.’ The ‘desk’ is very small table, hardly big enough to hold the little old-fashioned typewriter.”
I thought of Grand Manan and Puddles and Blivit when I had seen on Maine TV a news item about Maine Seaweed Week, April 25–May 4.
Then I Googled. The Maine Seaweed Week website is great, complete with recipes! I learned that this is the “7th Annual Food & Drink Festival Celebrating Maine’s Seaweed Harvest. Join us for the largest seafood food and drink festival in North America!” How had I missed news about the six previous festivals?
“Join us for a seaweed-centered celebration across the State! Think kelp burgers, seaweed beer and cocktails, and everything in between at your favorite local bars and restaurants. Plus, hands-on events like seaweed ID workshops, cooking classes, and Seaweed Saturday—our one-of-a-kind seaweed expo—all brought to you by Maine’s seaweed experts.”
There are lists of “Restaurants, Bars, and Bites” and “Makers and Retailers.” Items on the “Maine-Based Makers” list include seaweed lip balm, face mask, and body oil; kelp pizza dough; award-winning rockweed cheese; Maine oyster and seaweed chowder; pistachio kelp fudge.
The “Recipes from Maine’s Seaweed Experts” section begins, “Among these pages you’ll find recipes like kelp ribollita, dulse and avocado salad, seaweed corn chowder, crunchy chicken and fermented seaweed salad, spicy kelp cornbread muffins, 5-minute miso soups, and more!” The recipe that most appealed to me had been in a March 2014 issue of DOWN EAST magazine, from the SEA VEGETABLE CELEBRATION cookbook by Shep Erhart and Leslie Cerier, with a photo of a bowlful.
New England Dulse Chowder
Serves 4
1 cup water
1 medium onion, diced
2-3 medium potatoes, chopped
1 ounce dulse
½ lb. fresh or frozen corn
1 quart plain soymilk (not lite)
White or yellow miso, to taste
Black pepper, to taste
¼ to ½ teaspoon tarragon (optional)
In medium pot, bring 1 cup water to a boil. Add diced onion, then potatoes. Cook 5-10 minutes. Add the dulse and corn and cook for 1 minute. Add soymilk and reduce heat to a simmer (do not boil the soymilk or it will curdle). Stir occasionally. The dulse will separate into pieces after a few minutes. Add miso, pepper, and serve.
When Blivit and Puddles arrive at a (fictional) Grand Manan inn, Puddles, who does not want to dine on dulse and wants to be forewarned, asks the woman at the reception desk, “Do you serve dulse?”
The woman laughs merrily. “We tell people we have to track down dulse and beat it to death, that’s what turns it purple.”
A joke Don and I heard on Grand Manan!
© 2025 by Ruth Doan MacDougall; all rights reserved
POEMS & TEARS & LAUGHTER
April 27, 2025
Last week I decided to reacquaint myself with the National Poetry Month posts I’ve done in the past. The one for April 20, 2016 intrigued me:
“A while ago when I wrote here about houseplants and quoted from Tennyson’s ‘Crossing the Bar,’ I looked up the quote in my favorite anthology to make sure I’d got it right and as I did so I was amused to realize that I wouldn’t just check that one Tennyson poem. I would turn to his ‘Ulysses’ and inevitably I would start crying when I reached ‘Come, my friends,/Tis not too late to seek a newer world.’ Why would I deliberately reread a poem that I knew would make me cry?
“Well, now it’s April, National Poetry Month, and I’m trying to answer the question. In ‘Ulysses” the words and meter are irresistible: ‘It may be that the gulfs will wash us down:/It may be we shall touch the Happy Isles.’ They demand rereading through the years. And each rereading recaptures the wonder of the first discovery. If we had read it first in our youth (as we are wont to do with poetry), we recapture our youth.
That helps to set off the tears?
“What other poems automatically do this to me? The first that come immediately to mind are A. E. Housman’s ‘Loveliest of Trees,’ Rupert Brooke’s ‘The Soldier,’ Edna St. Vincent Millay’s ‘The Goose Girl’:
Spring rides no horses down the hill,
But comes on foot, a goose-girl still.
And all the loveliest things there be
Come simply, so, it seems to me . . .
“Okay, what about laughs? While looking something up in an anthology or just browsing, what poems do I stop at, knowing they’ll make me laugh? The first that come to mind again include Housman, ‘Terence, This Is Stupid Stuff.’ Then there’s E. B. White’s ingenious rhyming of ‘narcissus’ in every verse of ‘Window Ledge in the Atom Age,’ especially ‘I love the missus.’ In my teens I spent a lot of time in my parents’ collections of Dorothy Parker and Ogden Nash, laughing. Don still recalls my quoting Dorothy Parker to him: ‘But say my verses do not scan/And I get me another man!’ In April when ducks are returning to our lakes and ponds, whenever I see one feeding I always quote Ogden Nash on the subject of ducks: ‘When it sups/It bottoms ups.’”
And now in April 2025 I’ve recently been laughing with limericks. A dear friend quoted over the phone to me:
An epicure dining at Crewe
Found quite a large mouse in his stew.
Said the waiter, “Don’t shout
And wave it about,
Or the rest will be wanting one, too.”
In reply I quoted my favorite limerick, slightly risqué. Don and I heard it long ago on a Hogmanay show on British radio:
There was a young Scotsman named Andy
Who went into a pub for a shandy.
He lifted his kilt
To wipe what he’d spilt,
And the barmaid said, “Blimey, that’s handy!”
© 2025 by Ruth Doan MacDougall; all rights reserved
POEMS AND PICNICS
April 20, 2025
Recently within three days while doing errands Wanda and I had the treat of two car picnics—with two views of Lake Winnipesaukee.
For the first, from the Meredith McDonald’s we took our chicken nuggets down to the bay and parked in the town-docks spaces. We laughed about how after the Memorial Day long weekend (“the unofficial start of summer”) this would be impossible; no empty spaces again until after Labor Day. We marveled over how it seemed only yesterday that the bay was frozen and folks were ice-fishing. We gazed at Winnipesaukee.
I like my nuggets plain and Wanda had sauce with hers. Sauces! As I’ve mentioned in past Aprils, during National Poetry Month the local Yeoman’s Fund for the Arts posts a daily poem on the Sandwich Board; one of them this year is “Song to Barbecue Sauce” by Roy Blount, Jr.:
Hot and sweet and red and greasy,
I could eat a gallon easy:
Barbecue sauce!
Lay it on, hoss.
Nothing is dross
Under barbecue sauce.
Brush it on chicken, slosh it on pork,
Eat it with fingers, not with a fork.
I could eat barbecued turtle or squash—
I could eat tar paper cooked and awash
In barbecue sauce.
I’d eat Spanish moss
With barbecue sauce.
Hear this from Evelyn Billiken Husky,
Formerly Evelyn B. of Sandusky:
“Ever since locating down in the South
I have had barbecue sauce on my mouth.”
Nothing can gloss
Over barbecue sauce.
For the second car picnic Wanda and I were in Wolfeboro. After we stopped at the Dunkin’ Donuts and got an egg-and-cheese sandwich (Wanda) and a bagel oozing cream cheese (me), Wanda drove us over to another pre-Memorial-Day empty parking area for a lake view. We looked back across Winnipesaukee to the mountain range near Laconia. There was Belknap Mountain, the first mountain I climbed; that is, as I’ve mentioned here before, I was carried by my father while Penny rode in his wicker pack basket.
Enjoying the bagel, I remembered picnic lunches on hikes—and Canada jays, who are gray, not blue. Once in a while when we Over-the-Hill Hikers settled down on a summit and took our lunches out of our packs, we had to guard our food from these fine-feathered-friends who are nicknamed “camp robbers.”
Wanda and I were safe from Canada jays during our car picnics!
© 2025 by Ruth Doan MacDougall; all rights reserved
POETRY BOOKCASE
April 13, 2025
When we moved into this house in 1976 it was a shell. Don got so busy making the downstairs a home that we declared the entire upstairs my garret office and left it as is. A few years later he had time to turn his attention to it but by then I was ensconced under the eaves with my big Steelcase desk and big filing cabinets, etc., etc. Thus we continued to leave it as is.
However, I was using cartons, stacked on their sides, for bookcases. In our previous house the main bookshelves were built-in and they stayed when we left. So Don now built bookcases. He made five fine-furniture bookcases; these were for novels. He assembled other bookcases from Staples kits. We acquired a bookcase from a secondhand store and he painted it green, my favorite color. It became the Poetry Bookcase. On top of it I propped a little painting I’d done, my one and only painting, using Don’s paint and palette knife, applying the paint as if I were frosting a cake: yellow balloons against a green background; I called it “Springtime.”
Nowadays I’m unable to climb the stairs so my Steelcase desk has been moved downstairs along with one of the fine-furniture bookcases. The books that have come downstairs include favorite poetry collections and anthologies. And in National Poetry Month I’ve been picturing the Poetry Bookcase upstairs and remembering Don’s favorite poems. One of them is Philip Larkin’s “This Be the Verse,” full of Larkin’s rollicking use of “the F-word,” and the other is A. E. Housman’s “Terence, This is Stupid Stuff”:
. . . Oh I have been to Ludlow fair
And left my necktie God knows where,
And carried half-way home, or near,
Pints and quarts of Ludlow beer;
Then the world seemed none so bad
And I myself a sterling lad;
And down in lovely muck I’ve lain,
Happy till I woke again.
Then I saw the morning sky;
Heighho the tale was all a lie;
The world, it was the old world yet
I was I, my things were wet,
And nothing more remained to do
But begin the game anew.
Therefore, since the world has still
Much good, but much less good than ill,
And while the sun and moon endure
Luck’s a chance, but trouble’s sure,
I’d face it as a wise man would,
And train for ill and not for good . . .
While I’ve been working on my project of organizing folders and piles of papers, I’ve come upon yearbooks. One of them is ECHO, the 1964 Senior Class of Lisbon (New Hampshire) High School yearbook, which had been dedicated to Don, their English teacher and yearbook advisor. (He had also been the editor of his Laconia High School yearbook!) He was asked to write some words of wisdom to put under his photograph on the dedication page. We decided to have Housman speak for him. And there in the front pages of the Lisbon yearbook is Don sitting at his desk, smiling rather quizzically across the quotation below: “Therefore, since the world has still . . . train for ill and not for good.”
We moved to England that summer and stayed two years. We of course visited Ludlow—but because of timing we couldn’t go during the fair.
© 2025 by Ruth Doan MacDougall; all rights reserved
MUD-LUSCIOUS
April 6, 2025
In March folks start talking ruefully about “the fifth season”: mud season. Warnings remind us to be careful, to stay off dirt roads. Yes! When Wanda and I are doing errands we don’t take the dirt-roads shortcuts to the main road; we take the long way around on paved roads. I remember one spring when Don and I were young and brave and taking our usual scenic route from Sandwich to nearby Tamworth over a covered bridge, onto a dirt road. Don suddenly stopped the car, got out, and walked forward, testing the ground. He said, “Nope!” (more colorfully) and we turned back.
The Sandwich Board and the Meredith newspaper had this March announcement: “Mud Season Trail Update. Each year the Squam Lakes Association, in conjunction with landowners who allow public access to their land, temporarily closes sensitive trails around Squam. As the snow melts, muddy conditions force hikers to move off the trails onto the softer ground on the side. This loosens rocks, weakens trees, and creates erosion. In order to protect the network, please avoid hiking on closed trails until we reopen them when conditions dry up!
“The following trails are CLOSED as of 3/21: Rattlesnake network, Squam Range, Mt. Morgan Trail, Mt. Percival Trail, Crawford Ridgepole Trail, and Cotton Mountain Trail.
“Here are some alternative hikes that are OPEN while you wait: Belknap Woods, Whitten Woods, Chamberlain Reynolds Memorial Forest, Red Hill, Castle in the Clouds.”
When I read the trail names, full of memories, they seemed like poetry to me. And now it’s April, National Poetry Month, and I’m thinking of the mud in e.e. cummings’s “Chanson Innocente.” As I’ve mentioned here before, Don and I always reread and recited this poem during mud season, laughing:
In just —
Spring when the world is mud-
luscious the little
lame balloon-man
whistles far and wee.
And eddieandbill come
running from marbles and
piracies and it’s
spring,
when the world is puddle-wonderful
the queer
old balloon-man whistles
far and we
and bettyandisbel come dancing
from hop-scotch and jump-rope and
it’s
spring
and
the
goat-footed
balloon-man whistles
far
and
wee
© 2025 by Ruth Doan MacDougall; all rights reserved
Archive of Past Entries
Each year's entries are grouped by quarter; i.e., three months per page. The page you are viewing is the current quarter; once all entries for this quarter are set on a page, that "current page" will become an "archived entries page" and will appear in the listing below.
2025
Recipes of Ruhamah
Waste Not, Want Not
Dandelion Festival
Granite State's Best Places
May 2025 Sandwich Board
Maine Seaweed Week
Poems and Tears and Laughter
Poems and Picnics
Poetry Bookcase
Red-Flannel Hash, Etc.
Family Recipes
Wider Eyelids
Donuts After Dartmouth
Castle in the Clouds
Dan Doan's Birthday
File Folders
Chocolate Lovers' Month
Piano Songs
Titles
Velveeta, etc.
Sandwich Board Greets 2025
Words
2024
PW 2025 Spring Preview
Christmas Vacation
Songs
D-H Trip
Gatsby & Icarus & Pudding
Yankee
Sides
E-BLAST and Sandwich Board
Sentimental Journey
Announcement & Creme Tea
Rosemary Schrager
British Picnic
Fall Food
September Sandwich Board
Soap and Friends
Autumn Anxiety
From Philosophy to Popsicles
Cheat Day Eats
Meredith NH
1920s Fashions
Old Home Week 2024
Honor System
Lost . . .Found . . .
Picnics
Aunt Pleasantine
Best of New Hampshire
Soup to Doughnuts
Tried and True Beauty. . .
A Shaving Horse, Etc.
Farewell, Weirs Drive-In
Backyard Sights
Thoreau and Dunkin’ Donuts
Cafeteria-and-Storybook Food
Lost and Found
Dandelions and Joy
Fiddleheads and Flowers
Pass the Poems, Please
Pete
Road Trip
Reviews and Remarks
Girl Scouts
Board, Not Boring
Postholing & Forest Bathing
Chocolate
PW's Spring Previews
From Pies to Frost
Island Garden
More Sandwich Board
Nancy
2023
Spotted Dick
Dashing Through the Cookies
Chocorua
Senior Christmas Dinner
The Sandwich Board
Nostalgia
Socks, Relaxation, and Cakes
Holiday Gift Books
Maine
Cafeteria Food; Fast Food
Happy 100th Birthday, Dear LHS
Giraffes, Etc.
A Monday Trip
Laconia High School, Etc.
Christmas Romance
National Potato Month
Globe
Preserving With Penny
Psychogeography
Bayswater Books
"Wild Girls"
Kitchens
Old Home Week
The Middle Miles
Bears, Horses, and Pies
Fourth of July 2023
Lucy and Willa
Frappes, Etc.
Still Springtime
In the Bedroom
Dried Blueberries
More Items of Interest
Fire Towers
Anne, Emily, and L.M.
Earthquake,Laughter, &Cookbook
Springtime and Poems
Cookbooks and Poems
Items and Poems
Two Pies
Audiobooks
The Cheeleader: 50th Anniversary
The Lot, Revisited
Penny
Parking and Other Subjects
Concord
Bird Food & Superbowl Food
The Cold Snap
Laughter and Lorna
Tea and Digestive Biscuits
Ducks, Mornings, & Wonders
Snowflakes
A New Year's Resolution
2022
Jingle Bells
Fruitcake, Ribbon Candy &Snowball
Christmas Pudding
Amusements
Weather and Woods
Gravy
Brass Rubbing
Moving Day
Sandwiches and Beer
Edna, Celia, and Charlotte
Sandwich Fair Weekend
More Reuntions
A Pie and a Sandwich
Evesham
Chawton
Winter's Wisdom?
Vanity Plates
2022 Golden Circle Luncheon
Agatha and Annie
National Dog Month
The Chef's Triangle
Librarians and Libraries
Clothes and Cakes
Porch Reading
Cheesy!
The Summer Book
Bears Goats Motorcycles
Tuna Fish
Laconia
More Publishers Weekly Reviews
Shopping, Small and Big
Ponds
The Lakes Region
TV for Early Birds; An April Poem
Family; Food; Fold-out Sofas
Solitary Eaters
National Poetry Month
Special Places;Popular Cakes
Neighborhood Parks
More About Potatoes and Maine
Potatoes
Spring Tease
Pillows
Our Song
Undies
Laughter
A Burns Night
From Keats to Spaghetta Sauce
Chowder Recipes
Cheeses and Chowders
2021
The Roaring Twenties
Christmas Traditions
Trail Cameras
Cars and Trucks
Return?
Lipstick
Tricks of the Trade
A New Dictionary Word
A 50th Reunion
Sides to Middle" Again
Pantries and Anchovies
Fairs and Festivals
Reunions
A Lull
The Queen and Others
Scones and Gardens
Best Maine Diner
Neighborhood Grocery Store; Café
A Goldilocks Morning_& More
Desks
Sports Bras and Pseudonyms
Storybook Food
Rachel Field
The Bliss Point
Items of Interest
Motorcycle Week 2021
Seafood, Inland and Seaside
Thrillers to Doughnuts
National Trails Day
New Hampshire Language
Books and Squares
Gardening in May
The Familiar
Synonyms
"Bear!"
Blossoms
Lost Kitchen and Found Poetry
More About Mud
Gilbert and Sullivan
St. Patrick's Day 2021
Spring Forward
A Blank Page
No-Recipe Recipes
Libraries and Publishers Weekly
Party; Also, Pizza
Groundhog Day
Jeeps
Poems and Paper-Whites
Peanut Butter
Last Wednesday
Hoodsies and Animal Crackers
2020
Welcome, 2021
Cornwall at Christmastime
Mount Tripyramid
New Hampshire Pie
Frost, Longfellow, and Larkin
Rocking Chairs
Thanksgiving Side Dishes
Election 2000
Jell-O and Pollyanna
Peyton Place in Maine
Remember the Reader
Sandwich Fairs In Our Past
Drought and Doughnuts&
Snacks
Support Systems, Continuing
Dessert Salads?!
Agatha Christie's 100th Anniversary
Poutine and A Postscript
Pandemic Listening & Reading
Mobile Businesses
Backyard Wildlife
Maine Books
Garlic
Birthday Cakes
A Collection of Quotations
Best of New Hampshire
Hair
Learning
Riding & "Broading" Around Sunday Drives, Again
The Passion Pit
Schedules & Sustenance
Doan Sisters Go to a British Supermarket
National Poetry Month
Laconia
Results
Singing
Dining Out
Red Hill
An Island Kitchen
Pandemic and Poetry
Food for Hikes
Social Whirl in February
Two Audiobooks & a Magazine
Books Sandwiched In
Mailboxes
Ironing
The Cup & Crumb
Catalogs
Audiobook Travels
2019
Christmas Weather
Christmas in the Village
Marion's Christmas Snowball, Again
Phyliss McGinley and Mrs. York
Portsmouth Thanksgiving
Dentist's Waiting Room, Again
Louisa and P.G.
The First Snow
Joy of Cooking
Over-the-Hill Celebration
Pumpkin Regatta
Houseplants, New and Old
Pumpkin Spice
Wildlife
Shakespeare and George
Castles and Country Houses
New Hampshire Apple Day
Maine Woods and Matchmaking
Reunions
Sawyer's Dairy Bar
Old Home Week
Summer Scenes
Maine Food
Out of Reach
This and That, Again
The Lot
Pizza, Past and Present
Setting Up Housekeeping
Latest Listening and Reading
Pinkham Notch
A Boyhood in the Weirs
The Big Bear
It's Radio!
Archie
Department Stores
Spring Is Here!
Dorothy Parker Poem
National Library Week, 2019
National Poetry Month, 2019/a>
Signs of Spring, 2019
Frost Heaves, Again
Latest Reading and Listening
Car Inspection
Snowy Owls and Chicadees
Sandwiches Past and Present
Our First Date
Ice Fishing Remembered
Home Ec
A Rockland Restaurant
Kingfisher
Mills & Factories
Squirrels
2018
Clothesline Collapse
Thanksgiving 2018
Bookmarks
A Mouse Milestone
Farewell to Our Magee
Sistering
Sears
Love and Ruin
A New Furnace
Keene Cuisine
A Mini-Mini Reunion
Support System
Five & Ten
Dining Out Again
Summer Listening
Donald K. MacDougall 1936-2018
Update—Don
Telling Don
Don's Health
Seafood at the Seacoast?
Lilacs
Going Up Brook, revisited
The Weirs Drive-In Theater
The Green and Yellow Time
Recipe Box and Notebook
Henrietta Snow, 2nd Printing
Food and Drink Poems
Miniskirts & Bell-Bottoms
The Poor Man's Fertilizer
The Galloping Gourmet
The Old Country Store
The entries below predate Ruth's transferring her use of Facebook. They appeared as very occasional opportunities to share what was of interest to her in and around her neighborhood.
2014 - 2017
Book Reviewing
April Flowers
April Snowstorm
Restoring the Colonial Theater
Reunion at Sawyer's Dairy Bar
Going to the Dump
Desks
A Curmudgeon's Lament
Aprons
Our Green-and-Stone-Ribbed World
Playing Tourist
2012-2013
Sawyer's Dairy Bar
Why Climb a MountIn
Penny'S Cats
Favorite Books
Marion's Christmas Snowball
Robin Summer
Niobe
Mother West Wind
Neighborhood Stoves
2008 - 2011
The Lot
Mother Goose
Colonial Theater
Aeons of Ironing
Our Canterbury Tale
Love it Here
Children of the Great Depression
Loads of Laundry
2004 - 2007
The Winter of Our Comfort Food
Rebuilding the Daniel Doan Trail
My Husband Is In Love with Margaret Warner
Chair Caning
The End of Our Rope
The Weirs
Frost Heaves
Where In the World is Esther Williams
The Toolshed
Sandwich Bar Parade
Lawns
2000-2003
That'll Do
Chipmunks and Peepers
A Fed Bear
Laconia HS 45th Reunion
Birdbrains
Drought
Friends
Wild Turkeys
Meadowbrook Salon
Lunch on the Porch
Damn Ice
A Male Milestone
1998-1999
Y2K
Fifties Diner
Glorious Garlic
Celebrated Jumping Chipmunk
Going Up Brook
Mud Season
BRR!
Vacation in Maine
Trip to Lancaster/Lisbon NH
Overnight Hike to Gordon Pond
Big Chill Reunion
Backyard Wildlife
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